I Keep Making Bad Decisions

A little Food For Thought: I think this year I made ALOT of bad decisions. Bad Decisions with food, outfits, MEN, and the list goes on. One thing I find interesting about the idea of a “bad decision” is at the moment when we are about to make them, often times we try to give […]

What is a “Hot Girl Summa”?

“A season of being unapologetic in your glow, securing your own bags, being in your bag, embracing the body you have, laughing more, living more, and doing the dang thing while feeling darn good“ Disclaimer: This Blog post may NOT be for women who are married, engaged, courting, talking to someone or in love. Here […]

I’m NOT my Types Type.

Ive been holding off on posting this specific Blog Post. I think because its so personal and can be taken in so many ways… I didn’t want anyone to read it and judge me or look at me differently . But then I realized that this entire blog has been about me being honest, real […]

Am I too Black to Be in PR?

May 2013– I was excited to get into a profession that I felt was the most impactful and contributing to the future I wanted for my life. With the way the world was going with global warming, eco-feminism on a rise and environmental hazards on a rampant.. studying Environmental Studies felt like the right thing […]

I Miss My Ex.

Have you ever sat down and tried to rationalize what the root of your personal insecurities, lack of confidence and overall outlook on certain life situations stems from? A lot of women ( + men) leave relationships emotionally scared and damaged. He said/ She said. He did/She did situations leave the involved individuals confused and […]

What’s My Price?

The Average Person walks into a store, picks up an item or item(s) of interest and one of the first thoughts that come to mind once they have established that the item in hand is of interest is… “What is the Price?/ How much does this cost?” Naturally we know nothing in life is free […]

Dear Black Men

Viewer Discretion is Advised. Dear BLACK MEN: Your kinks, coils and strength amuse me and I am proud to be your woman. I admire your perseverance even during adversity and your willingness to go against the stereotypical grain fed by society saying who YOU are. You are so powerful and the world is scared that […]

I guess I’m not REAL Enough

Society preaches that we should do what makes us happy, do what makes us feel truly “ourselves” and in tune with who we are or want to potentially be. My entire life I found myself being judgmental and narrow minded when it came to anything that was body image, enhancement or aesthetics related. I guess […]

Incomplete Thought: Could You Love Me Naked?

Vulnerability: “The quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.” Ive always struggled with being vulnerable. I lied. I haven’t always struggled. To be honest it was not an emotion I felt until probably the last 4 years. Before the pain, and the heartache and […]

I don’t want to fall in love !

Love. According to Webster dictionary, Love is : a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties, attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers, affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests. Hollywood paints love to be this warming feeling, this fairytale or mythical feeling that comes when […]